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I Am Yours, I am yours, I am yours. Send Me.
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Lord. Welcome to the Gospel Center
per life podcast and this episode we're going
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to talk about words, the words
that we use when we're talking to an
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abortion minded mom, the words that
we use when we're talking about abortion who
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believe the words in this podcast will
be a blessing to you, so stay
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tuned. I felt show passish,
touch your heart. Use Guys. Welcome
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to the Gospel Center per life podcast. Appreciate you, guys joining us.
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Appreciate all you guys who share this
podcast. We encourage you to do that.
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We're going to talk today about words
and that words mean something and,
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of course, in particular when we're
dealing with the issue of abortion, the
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language that we use, the words
that we use, can have an impact,
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a good positive impact or a bad
negative impact. All right, and
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we well know, if you've been
in this area of ministry for any time,
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you who are listening, you well
know that the quote pro choice movement
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knows this as well. Right and
their language with plan parenthood and and other
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you know, the abortion industry in
general. They craft language in such a
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way a right that makes it seem
like abortion is just healthcare. Yeah,
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matter of fact, they say that
abortion is healthcare rights, one of the
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thing reproductive health care. Yeah,
so we're going to talk about that.
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We're also going to talk about how
we as as ministers of the Gospel,
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but as prolife ministers as well,
ministers of life, the language that we
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use and how that language can be
received or even rejected by those that were
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trying to reach because of the words
that we use. Right, right,
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we need to be very careful with
words. While we were thinking about doing
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this podcast, in this this subject, I was in an extended text exchange
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with a mother who was on the
fence between choosing life or aborting her child.
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Yeah, and I was very conscious
of the words I was using.
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And after a while she kind of
went silent, which is usually not a
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good sign. And then a couple
of days later, I wrote to her,
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offering help again, and she responded
the pregnancy is terminated. Yeah,
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and it really struck me. I
wanted to write back, do you mean
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that your baby is dead, that
you have killed your baby? I wouldn't
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have, and I didn't, but
that is what happened. But the the
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words that she used made it seem
like, you know, a job is
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terminated or or you know, the
the dishes are done, the pregnancy is
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terminated. It was such a cold
and sterile sort of it's the language of
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the abortion industry, is yeah,
and that's intentional. The abortion industry knows
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that the more terminology and words that
they would use that would humanize that baby,
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right, the less likely women are
going to be to come to them
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and have abortions pay for their healthcare. Yeah, reproductive services. Yeah,
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yeah, I mean, come on, I'm going to rabbit trail on this,
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right, but reproductive health care,
abortion is exactly the opposite of reproduction.
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Reproduction, the word reproduce implies that
you're that something else is being created
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in the milt produced. Yes,
and that's exactly the opposite that which has
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already been produced by the hand,
by the hand of God. Yeah,
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and through the active intercourse, that
baby is being killed. It's not reproduction,
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it's the opposite anyway. Yeah,
and health. Well, health is
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usually that you're saving and enhancing someone's
life, not taking life. That so
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I went through some of the words
that are prominent in the abortion movement.
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So, so one of the words
abortion, let's talk about that. Okay,
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portion itself, the word abortion.
What's an abortion? I mean most
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people outside of who are doing abortions
really it's not a word. To use
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abortion a and it it in and
of itself sanitizes what is a horrific,
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violent either poisoning or dismember me dismemberment, death of an unborn child. Yeah,
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but so the word itself, abortion
distances the mother and everybody from the
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truth of what is actually yeah,
yeah, or even that term termination of
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a pregnancy, right. Yeah,
you know, when you think about the
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word abortion, I mean if you
go to its root, and of course
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the word is abort right, and
it's stoppinging a process, right, process
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that's in place. It's stopping that
process. Now, the process, of
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course, in this situation is pregnancy, right, and that's another word.
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People in the Abortion Industry Plan parenthood. They use the word pregnancy to apply
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to the baby. We're going to
take care of your pregnancy, right,
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we're going to remove the pregnancy.
Right. Well, pregnancy is not a
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thing. I actually say this this
often, yes, as I'm talking to
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women at the abortion center, talking
to men, and say pregnancy is not
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a thing, it's a process and
abortion stops that process. Of pregnancy.
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Yeah, but you know, if
you think about it, I mean thinking
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about the word abortion, they're actually
two ways to abort a pregnancy. You
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can kill your child in the womb, dismemberment or a medical abortion, or
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you can deliver your baby, I
mean delivery of a child. Your child
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being born terminates the pregnancy. That's
right. So it's not abortion, but
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check to termination of pregnancy, is
what you're saying. And one one very
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positive and one very horrific. Yeah, how about just the Word Clinic?
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Yeah, abortion clinic. So what
does clinic say to us? Well,
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it seems helpful. It seems like
it's there to meet our needs, medical
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needs and that sort of thing.
Doctors who are there to improve life.
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Yeah, well, so this is
something I mentioned to you before we started
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this podcast. But yes, some
of the language that we use, because
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there is a lingo, I guess, associated with with any I guess niche
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or whatever. I don't know what
word to use there. Yeah, and
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we have a lingo on the sidewalk
and within our circles. We refer to
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the abortion clinics as abortion mills.
That's an abortion meal. And why do
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we do that? It's because they
produce abortions. They and they do it
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without really you know, you think
of a meal, you think of they
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just produce a product without really regard
to anything but just producing that product.
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And that's what abortion is, especially
the one not far from here on the
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trope drive, when they're doing,
we just came from there today, forty
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seven, more than probably more,
probably more than forty seven one day abortions.
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Yeah, yeah, that's an abortion
mill. So it's a factory.
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It's a factory of babies, that
abortions, killing by children. Yeah,
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right. So we refer to it
in our circles as an abortion meal.
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Yeah. Now, when I'm sharing, though, publicly on social media,
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if I go share at a church
or something like that, people who aren't
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in this realm, right, that
I want to bring into this realm,
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like I want them to come into
this ministry. I want them to see
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the validity of this ministry, in
the necessity of this ministry, I don't
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use the term abortion meal, right. I actually will use the term abortion
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clinic or abortion center. Yeah,
now I do try to steer clear of
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abortion clinic so much because I don't
want to validate it, because it's not
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a clinic, because when you think
of clinic, you think of healthcare and
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really helping people and doctors that actually
do good things. Yeah, but I
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do that and I use that term
and knowledge and I steer clear of abortion
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meal so that people aren't, you
know, just wondering what are you even
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talking about? You know, you're
speaking your lingo and they don't really understand
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what you're talking about. Yeah,
right. So just to avoid all that,
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I just use abortion center, right, or abortion clinic, but I
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might talk about it being an abortion
meal and then explain that. You know,
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I think it's important for us,
if we're going to use terms that
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people don't normally connect with, that
we take time to explain those terms,
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because terms and big words sometimes can
make people pause and think about that.
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Right, but I think it's up
to US sometimes to explain those words.
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So, for example, if I'm
at the abortion meal and I'm calling out
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to a mom who obviously doesn't know
the Lord, I want to share the
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Gospel, right, I want her
to know the Lord, and I'm going
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to talk about repentance and I'm going
to talk about sin and I will use
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the word fornication, I will talk
about sex outside of marriage and I'll show
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when uses anymore. I M Biblical
word and we just don't hear it much
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any it's not a popular word.
Su Sure. Yeah, and I do
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that actually intense right, because I
think that it it's maybe for some people
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it's a archaic word or whatever.
Yeah, but I do it and then
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I explain it. So I'll say
something like, you know, the Bible
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says that fornication is sin inside of
God, and I'll say fornication is sex
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outside of marriage. So then I'm
bringing a word into the equation to help
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them to think about it and then
I'm explaining that word. Because if it's
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just say fornication is wrong, yeah, where I just say repent. So
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if I use the word repent,
which we should, it's a biblical word.
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Yeah, I will say. So
you need to repent. That means
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you need to turn away from your
sin and turn to the Lord, right,
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right. Yeah, yeah, and
I think that word has kind of
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a bit of a shock value because
it's just so acceptable, yeah, today's
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society, that everybody does it.
Everybody has sex outside of marriage. So,
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but if you apply a word that
clearly God meant it in a negative
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way, yeah, then I think
it and most people have read the Bible,
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at least here in this area,
and they they might look at it
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a little bit differently. Yeah,
it. How about just the word pill?
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Yeah, that it's an abortion pill. So what do you think of
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when you think of pill? Yeah, you know, you think of I
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think kind of a quick fix,
yeah, to your situation. You know,
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you got a headache, Hey,
you take a head but it's a
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life saving right, it will,
it relieves undesirable symptoms and and it and
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in some cases it saves lives.
We take pills, medicine, whatever they
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want to coronavirus medicine, pills,
something that will, that will lend this
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this pandemic. Yeah, and course, again it speaks of healthcare and a
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helpful thing, right, most of
the time. Yeah, but of course,
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in this case, right, we're
not really talking about as far as
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the abortion peel is concerned, it's
really not an abortion peel. It's actually
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an abortion pill regiment. Right,
they give to medications. Yeah, and
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I do take time to explain that. You know, we have in our
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brochure that we hand out to people
going into the abortion center the abortion pill
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procedure and describes it and how it
works. Yeah, because again, it's
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not you. I'll say that on
microphone. Sometimes I'll say that. You
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know, this is not just the
magic peel that you take, your baby
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disappears. You going with your right, right, but it's also an act
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of violence. Yeah, and the
medication that you take is going to kill
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your child and then the second medication
that they give you to take it home,
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you're going to deliver your dead baby
in the toilet, and pretty violently,
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with pretty violent conection. Anyone is
out there listening, you've seen the
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unplanned movie and it really graphically shows
is how an abortion pill procedures carried through.
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Yeah, that is the reality of
it. Yeah. Yeah, so
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that word pill makes it seem like
any see and it's yeah, it's no
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big deal, I'm going to take
this peel. I just taking the peel
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right. Yeah, and yeah,
it sanitizes it. Yeah, than exact.
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makes it seem like something it's not
as bad as actually is. Yeah,
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even the word pro choice, we've
talked about that. The word pro
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pro choice. It's a pro where. Really, what they're saying is is
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we see very clearly that they're not
supportive of the choice for life. They
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do everything in their power to prevent
the MOM's from choosing life in that at
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least in that parking lot and where
we're standing on the sidewalk. So it's
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really it's a choice for the murder
of an innocent unborn baby. But you
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never hear that. They don't say
that. You know, one of the
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things I've said pro choice people and
to, you know, the MOMS going
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into the abortion center when I think
it's appropriate. Yeah, is the word
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choice. You know, you're here
because you want to exercise your right of
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choice. You're right to choose.
There are the word choice itself implies the
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availability of more than one option.
If you only have one option, you
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don't have choice. Yeah, and
in an abortion center and an abortion clinic,
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clinic, in an abortion meal.
Yeah, they're not offering other options
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right. I mean they're not laying
out a brochure and says, okay,
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you can choose adoption, you can
choose to part your child are you can
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choose abortion. They're not doing that
right. And you know you wouldn't expect
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them to write because they make money. All there. Its children at it
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that right. And so choice IMPLAUSI. Availability of more than one option.
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But we all know when people say
their pro choice. We are they talking
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about? Yeah, we're talking about
abortion. Their pro abortion, right,
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right. That's the reality of it. And of course they claim that we're
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just pro birth. Yeah, I
mean I'm fine with that term. I'm
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pro birth. Yeah, I'm I'm
glad you're born, Vicky. I'm glad
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I was born. I'm even glad
there's those pro abortion people were born,
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you know, but we're pro you, pro you living beyond birth to yeah,
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I mean, that's that's all just
a bunch. Yeah, yea,
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so many of the people that accompany
the abortion patients. I don't actually that's
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another one. Patient. Yeah,
patient. Well, they're not patients.
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Their clients may be clients that,
you know, contributing to the murder of
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their own child, but they're really
not. Yeah, patients. Patients are
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someone who have some sort of disease, right, that needs help clearing it
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up, and pregnancy is not a
disease, it is a normal process.
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Yeah, actually had somebody on facebook. I think I might have put a
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quote out there, not a quote, but a post out there on facebook,
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on our public facebook page, share
in how many abortion patients were in
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there. And you know, I
use that word because people know what you're
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talking about, and they correct me
said these are not patience, these are
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aboarding moms. Yeah, exactly,
and I was like, you know what,
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yeah, you're right. Yeah,
and so moving forward I'm kind of
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doing the best I can, because
that's what these are, aboarding mom they're
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there other people that are here to
kill their children. So the people that
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comment, that accompany them, are
called support people, support support people,
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and in fact, I love this
that you said this. I believe it
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was last week, and I just
loved it and it's so perfect for what
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we're discussing now, where one of
the support people said you were eloquently speaking
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to him about he needed to go
in there and help this woman to make
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a godly choice and to preserve that
baby and to really help that woman because
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abortion is so devastating to women as
well. And the man said, look,
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I'm I'm not the father, I'm
just here for moral support. Moral
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support. Think about that, and
which you pointed out so wonderfully. Well,
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you know, if you're here for
moral support, there has to be
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something moral they are supporting. Yeah, and the death of an innocent human
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being through brutal violment means is not
moral. Yeah, and anybody immoral.
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It's very immoral. I think that's
what you said to him. This isn't
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im moral. Support is is basically
so. The word, though, the
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word that even these people that accompany
the women trying to make them feel it's
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okay for them to be there right
in whatever capacity, or support person in
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her. So you are. That's
a positive or positive thing. You're holding
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them up in their time of need. But really, what they are they're
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an accessory. They're an accessory to
murder and God will call them to account.
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Yeah, for their part in that. I had a mom last week
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actually, who she chose life and
one of her relatives was aboarding and she
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was paying for it, right,
and she knew that it was wrong and
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she was there. She had chosen
like purpose. She was coming to support
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the heather. Well, they they
came together and and one of them stopped
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to talk to me. Okay,
shows life. And while we're counseling her,
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the nurse comes to get the payment
for the relative who was aboarding and
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we did our best to try and
talk this mom, who chose life,
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out of being an accessory to murder, and she kept saying, I'm just
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I can't, I have to support
my sister. Yeah, so that words
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support, that it's considered support,
when really, what are you doing?
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You're helping someone to murder a baby. And words matter. I think a
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good analogy or something that people can
connect with, and I use it often
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times if I'm talking to US support
person who's just there to support their friend.
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Right, I'll say something like well, if they were at the bar
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and had a little too much of
drink and they got their keys in their
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hand and are walking toward the door
to get in their car and drop down
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the road, would you support them? Yeah, because if you didn't do
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something to stop them, if you
just ignored that, or if you hopped
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in the car with them, right, and someone got killed, you would
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be an accessory. Right, you
could be tried and you could be convicted.
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Yeah, for not helping your friend
do the right thing. Yeah,
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you're culpable, you know. Or
you know, if your friend told you,
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Hey, I want to get rob
this bank, would you ride along
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with me? Right, if you
hop in the car with them, you
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might not do any of the robbing, you might be you might even be
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opposed to it, and you talking
to him the whole way. Hey,
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I don't want you to rob this
bank, but you're involving in that.
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You're being in that vehicle, even
driving the getaway car. Its hearty agreement
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to that right. So they are
an accessory to that. Now, of
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course, words do mean something and
with our language and with the tone that
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we use, in the way that
we speak, we're not just out there
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on the sidewalk lamb basting everyone.
Right, you're all bunch of wicked accessories
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to murder. When we're given a
one on one opportunity, we use those
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words and we want it the conviction, the Holy Spirit to come because ultimately,
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you mean, you can yell as
loud as you want, you use
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all the words you want. Ultimately, of the Holy Spirit doesn't convict them,
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there's no change going to take place. So we're trusting in the Lord
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and we're trusting in God's timing.
We're trusting in God's ability to reach their
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hearts. But we do need to
be truthful with our language. We need
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do need to be calculated with the
language that we use so that people don't
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let themselves because people will use language
in their own minds to let themselves off
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the hook. Right, we can't
do that. Yeah, and they do
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it with the word feed is for
there's many, many words for baby.
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Fetus is one that's that's kind of
funny in a way because feet is just
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means little one. It's Latin for
little one. It's not like it's saying
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in some way fetus is not baby, right, but it makes them feel
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better because you're not saying baby.
But one of my least favorite, why?
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I have two least favorite one is
just station calling the baby a jest.
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Station. Yeah, that to me. I don't know. That one
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bothers me a lot. And the
second one that bothers me a lot that
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you hear in the abortion industry is
product of conception, right, yeah,
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the product of conception. That's half
a product of conception. Party for for
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the the pregnant conception shower, right, exactly, in products of conception shower.
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You know these MOMS when they find
out they're pregnant, your moms who
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were excited about their babies. Right, don't put out there, Hey,
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I have a product of conception,
might be a girl or boy. Right,
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what do you think? We're going
to have? A yeah, GIN
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to reveal fromm probably from station.
Product of conceptive, the word I hate.
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Yeah, Watch, I mentioned earlier, is pregnancy, your pregnancy.
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We're going to take care, we're
going to remove your pregnancy. No,
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you're not. That's it's not a
pregnancy, it's a baby. In any
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other scenario, yeah, I've said
this to a boarding mother's in any other
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scenario, if you were excited about
this baby, you wouldn't refer to it
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as a pregnancy. Doesn't matter how
early you are, you would say I'm
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having a baby. You know,
you recommend that. The moment that you
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find out it's a baby. It's
not like, well, this, this
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is just its ego to or blasticider, you just don't say that that was
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say it. It's unless you're trying
to avoid certain realities, you're going to
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recognize it's a baby when you see
those two lines on that pregnancy test.
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You didn't think, Oh, I'm
carrying a pregnancy, I have just station
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you know, I've got a projecty
of conception or a fetus, so have
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a baby. I'm a mother exactly. And that kind of brings us.
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Brings me to this other thault and
the words that we use when we're addressing
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the women going into the abortion center. We do say, young lady,
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please come over and talked with us. We call me a young lady.
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were, of course, kind and
gentle in our tone, but we call
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a mom's also. Yeah, we
say my mom, go in there and
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take the life of your baby,
because that's the reality, right. Are
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Mother's yeah, exactly, and it's
not like we're trying to just reduce them
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to mother's which is something I've heard
people say. It is that we are
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pointing out. This is there,
there as a mother about to slaughter their
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child, and the reminder you are
a mother. That alone can sometimes have
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value and power. Yeah, you're
a mother. Yeah, because the truth
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is that she is a mother at
the moment of conception. Yeah, yeah,
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you know, a mother is a
female, yeah, who has offspring.
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Yeah, right. Yeah, she
has in her womb offspring, she
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has a child, yeah, her
baby, her son or daughter, and
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that baby has gender. It's either
a he or she rather than an it.
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Yeah, so we're very conscious about
using gender specific he or she,
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your son or your yeah, rather
than referring to the baby as as it.
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You know who. I'll share this
testimony at some point. I won't
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get into any length. Maybe we'll
have this young lady on. Okay,
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the young lady who had put a
post out on facebook and also put it
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out in our blog about the young
lady who, you know, I thought
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was actually going into a board after
we had talked to her and I said
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please, don't do this, and
she turned around and said I'm going in
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for a refunds if she got her
money back. I mean, awesome,
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the Lord just moves. She got
on, went on the mobile unit after
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having been in the in the abortion
center. She went on the mobile unit,
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gave her life to the Lord.
Her and her mother actually came back
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that next Friday, wow and gave
brought me a gift basket in a car
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to saying thank you for being a
voice that was there. And her mother
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actually was talking about the baby and
she used the word is. She said,
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yeah, it's going to be such
a blessing. And she said,
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wait a minute, I shouldn't say
the word it. Oh, even she
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bet, even she recognized it.
Even she recognized sometimes in our regular common
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language we might use the word it
referring to the baby in the womb because
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you don't know whether it's a boy
or girl, which he even caught herself
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sit. I didn't refer to our
baby as ant. You my grandchild,
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isn't it? That's my grand baby. Yeah, yeah, it's yes,
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I'm story. Yeah, and another
word that we use a lot is blessing,
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and that's the positive what a child
is. They are in less seen
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and throughout the Bible every child is
described as a blessing. Yeah, but
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the the negative, the words that
are used in the abortion industry and from
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the mothers themselves is that this is
a problem, right, yeah, or
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if cold, situation or condition.
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is not a negative one. It
doesn't need to be a negative one.
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Yeah, and that that baby is
a blessing. So one of the things
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that I did that was really,
I think, illuminating, is going to
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the website of the abortion center,
okay, and and looking at some of
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the abortion center here on the tree, abortion center here Charlotte. Right.
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So that there's so many and I
won't hit every one of them, but
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one of the line said we believe
every woman should have control of her life
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and her personal decisions. So I'm
reading that and that sounds wonderful. That's
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true. You know, you should
have control of your life in your personal
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decision. But this is what they
mean. That they're not saying. What
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they truly mean is every mother should
be able to murder their own child without
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anyone else telling her it is wicked, evil, unnatural or wrong. Yeah,
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that now, if they wrote that, if a doubt, that would
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be very well received by their client
tail. Probably not. I probably would
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lower the rates at which they were
able to make money off of killing children.
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Private appointment, private appointment. That
sounds good, that that's a private
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they offer a private appointment. So
what that is in actuality is a scheduled
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time when mothers would be able to
get away with murdering their unborn child with
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the utmost secrecy for an increased cost. Yeah, but it's called a private
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appointment, which sounds very yeah,
wonderful, it does. So, and
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and there's so much we won't get
into all of them. But they,
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they, it's called reproductive healthcare instead
of the brutal murder, yeah, of
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an unborn baby. They have counselors
there who are said to be sincere,
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caring women who are committed to helping
each individual patient complete their treatment. treatment.
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Yeah, okay, treatment. What
is treatment? I mean treatment,
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you think. Okay, if you're
having a treatment, that you have a
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condition. Of course, that's plays
right into the whole thing. Pregnancy is
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a condition, right, as far
as these people are concerned. Yeah,
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but yeah, so it sounds like
treating a condition. It sounds like dealing
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with a condition. And this treatment
is not the brutal murder order of an
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unborn baby. This is, you
know, it's a treatment. Yes,
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the termination of a pregnancy. It's
the removal of the product of conception.
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And get this, this kills me
helping to complete their treatment with the best
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possible emotional, physical and spiritual outcome. Wow, that's on the abortion center
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website, that this treatment the killing
of an unborn child created by God in
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his image. That treatment will be
carefully completed for the best optimal spiritualcome.
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Yeah, which is blasphemy, lashman's
Bologny. Yeah, I mean, goodness,
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abortion, as far as spiritually concerned, destroys women. Yeah, I
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mean we know, we've heard the
testimonies, we've seen people coming out of
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that abortion clinic, just spiritually,
emotionally, physically, yeah, just Straw.
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Yeah, this is not. I
mean abortion is a spiritual thing,
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just like sacrificing a goat to the
devil is a spiritual thanks, right,
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I mean this is yeah, it's
a satanic thing. Yes, the destruction
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of an unborn child, image bearer
of Almighty God. Yeah, you know.
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So that gets into some of the
terminology as far as the scripture is
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concerned. When we look scripturally what
the Bible describes the Unborn Child Ass.
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You know, we have terms like
in someone thirty nine, you knit me
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together in my mother's womb. I
mean what, what's the implications of those
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words when you think about me it
together? Yeah, yeah, there's purposeful
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design and care and intricacy. Yeah, yeah, intricacy, purpose, even
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destiny. Love, yeah, love, care, fearfully and wonderfully made is
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in that same Oh, yes,
some, right. So then you have
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terms like if fearfully wonderfully made,
wonderful, it goes on to say in
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that Psalm and I love I love
preaching about that song. Yeah, because
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there's so many good words in there, the best words. Yeah, marvelous
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are your works. Yeah, and
that my soul knows real well that word
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marvelous. Yeah, when I think
of it, I think of the Grand
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Canyon, I think of the God's
creation, I think of looking at an
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ultrasound image of a baby in the
womb and and marvel at the handiwork of
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God. Yeah, your mouth drops
open, you're astounded. Right, and
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that's the words that the scripture uses
concerning the child, that the abortion industry
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uses, words like you, product
of conception and treatment, and condition,
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like pregnancies, a condition. Word
of God uses these rich, powerful,
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life filled or right, like wonderful, like marvelous, like knit. Another
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word in that Psalm, and some
one hundred and thirty nine is you covered
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me. Ever here be thought about
that word. You covered me in my
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mother's WOM. You know, a
couple of years ago I was meditating on
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that Psalm and just meditating on what
does that mean? You covered me in
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my mother's WOM and it really means
it speaks of the involvement of God.
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So David is the psalmist there and
he's talking about how God he know.
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He starts the Psalm saying God,
you know when I sit down and when
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I rise up, you know my
thoughts from afar, you know all my
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days before even one of them came
to pass. And so he's talking about
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how God knows him and loves him
and has plans for him. And then
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he takes it, of course,
from just being outside the womb, being
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on the earth. He's talking about
being inside the women. He said you
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covered me, means you were involved, you were concerned protecting you. You
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cover me now, but you covered
me w while I was my mother's way
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back then. Yeah, and the
moment of conception. So you know,
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scripturally, words means something. Yeah, words like what we talked about earlier,
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about fornication and repentance. And then, of course those are, I
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don't say negative words, they're meant
to bring about negative connotations and ultimately positive
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change. Right, but then again, you have these life giving words and
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you have the word like gift.
Children are a gift to your children.
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Some thirty or one, twenty seven
children are a heritage. Yeah, from
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the Lord less. It is he
whose quivers full. So, yeah,
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we ever full is presented as a
joy. where? How many people with
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large families find that? People chastise
the Oh yeah, yeah, and they're
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my wife has come to me and
that just been, I don't know,
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offended probably not the right word,
but distraught, whatever it's like. Yeah,
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you know, is that the store
and everybody's looking at me. I
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had all the kids with me,
she don't normally take all the kids to
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the store, but yeah, we
have eight kids, by the way,
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for those who are listening right.
And so she's walking through the store and
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she's all these people are looking at
her. You know, she even had
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people ask of them. And if
any of you guys are listening that have
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large families, you probably going to
ask this. Are All these kids you're
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you know, are they all from
the same any poor thing or whatever?
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Yeah, thing, bless your horn. Yeah, and one person even asked
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her. Actually, a couple of
people best your they all from the same
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father as like, okay, words
mean something and you need to put those
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words back in your mouth. That's
ridiculous, but I encourage your one time
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I said, you know what,
imagine everybody's looking at you funny, whatever.
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Imagine you're walking through the store and
you've got a cart full of money
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and everybody's looking at you funny,
and they're looking at you strange because you're
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pushing a cart full of money and
they all wanted. Well, they may
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be looking at you funny because they
think you're flouting your money or whatever.
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Who knows why they're looking at you
funny, but are you really going to
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care. Right, you got a
cart full of money. Right. Well,
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according to the word of God and
the word that God's uses, children
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are a blessing or a heritage from
the right. When you're pushing a cart
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full of kids through the store,
you're pushing more than a cartful of money,
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you're pushing a car full of blessing. So you know again, God's
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Word Affirms Certain truths that we need
to grab a hold of. Hey,
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and in words do mean something and
as we use really and as the as
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the language goes. I heard this, I think, from Albert Molar just
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a few weeks ago, a couple
weeks ago. As the language goes,
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thus goes the culture. And so
you think about expanding beyond the pro pro
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life, but just things like the
word gay to describe homosexuality. It's there's
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a very different picture when you hear
the word gay first when it first came
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out. It gay is happy,
joyful, whatever, and and it was
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a way to to make homosexuality very
unaccepted back then when it first came out.
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Yeah, and and to change how
people would look at that. And
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and that's what's happening big time in
the abortion industry. Is the words are
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being used to make our culture believe
that this is an innocuous and even a
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good yeah, yeah, and it's
a sad reality. So guys it.
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We won't encourage you. You know
again, words mean something, words have
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value to them. We need to
be intentional about the words that we use.
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Yeah, we don't, of course, need to be nasty when we're
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communicating with people, but we do
need to be clear, are as articulate
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as possible. Yeah, we need
to be biblical, you know, when
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we're using terminology and now, it
doesn't mean we need to be like super
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lofty in our speech, but if
we do use, and I think we
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should use, biblical language. Yeah, like I mentioned the example of using
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the word fornication and then explain those
words, explain what those words mean,
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the word repentance, and then explain
what that word means. So, as
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we're standing for life, as we're
standing for truth, it's also contend for
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the words that we use. Yeah, contend for the truths that are embodied
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in those words. And as the
Lord obviously to help us. When you're
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reaching out at an abortion clinic,
you've got fifteen seconds. Well, at
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least we do. Yeah, the
most scenarios. Yeah, from their car
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to the door, when they're walking
down the sidewalk, everywhere it can got.
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Yeah, everywhere, gaster, she
seconds. Yeah, every word counts.
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Yeah, he said every word matters. Yeah. So we need to
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be intentional, which is, you
know, part of part of what we
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do in our trainings and stuff like
that. Right, part of what we're
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doing on the sidewalks for life site
is trying to teach people, yeah,
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how to speak, how to be
effective. Some folks have this mentality of
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add an abortion clinic. We need
to steer away from words like murder.
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Hey, just your away from talking
about God. Even. That's not what
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we found at all. We found
that your best method is to be graciously
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forthright, like you don't need to
be around the bush. If woman's there
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for an abortion, ask her,
are you here from an abortion? Don't
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talk about the weather, don't talk
about the way. You don't time man
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or what do you know? Don't
time that baby's on its way to destruction.
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Yeah, and you've got to bring
truth into the equation. Right and
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again, you do it graciously.
I don't think it's effective. I actually
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I know it's not effective. Just
be yelling abortion is murder of the whole
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time. Right, but it is
effective to bring that word into the equation.
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Yeah, to talk about the fact
that abortion is murder. Yeah,
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I think, certainly in the eyes
of God. Yeah, there's just en
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nothing. Talking about that word and
breaking that word down when you have an
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opportunity to an abortion minded woman is
a powerful way to show her the reality
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of what she's doing. Right,
but we need the Lord's help, right.
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Yeah, God always. Yeah,
we need God's help to help us
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to bring clarity in the situations.
I hope this podcast is help you guys
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a little bit with words. I
hope this has been a blessing. Hope
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all the podcasts are blessing to you. Let us know. Let us know
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that this podcast was a blessing to
you. Let us know if you have
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ideas for future podcast. We're going
to do one in the next couple of
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weeks about adoption. Yeah, that'd
be esome. Yeah, and talking about
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adoption, I get. I mean
in the past month we've gotten messages through
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facebooks or public facebook page about,
you know, my family, we really
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want to adopt. Is there any
chance you can connect us with an abortion
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minded mom at the abortion center that
we can adopt her child. And,
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yeah, I've personally gotten too yes, yeah, I've gotten a bunch.
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And so we're going to talk a
little bit about how we mention adoption.
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Yeah, at the abortion centers,
and when it's appropriate and it's not appropriate.
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You know, listen, guys,
there are some inappropriate times to mention
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adoption. There are sometimes that a
adoption can be a non starter in a
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conversation, can even be the deal
breaker. Ah, yeah, what sends
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them running in? Yeah, I've
had conversations stop writing their tracks I mentioned
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the word adoption and a woman going
to the abortion center who would otherwise continue
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to engage. Anyway. We're going
to talk about that in the coming weeks
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with Jessica Moline. Hopefully we'll be
able to pin her down. She's with
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option, adoption, but we hope
you guys are blessed with this podcast.
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Please share it and until next time, God bless give me our love for
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love, give me our love for
gratitude. I know it will cost me
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my life. Nothing's too precious.
And some met you